Unfortunately, funeral homes in Charlotte, NC have seen a lot surrounding death and how families react to a loved one’s loss. In the best cases, families gather together, honor their loved one, and support one another without any rifts. However, that’s not always the case. Sometimes, families fight over what final services to have, who inherits what, and so on. How can you avoid those issues?
The best thing you can do to avoid family inheritance issues after you pass on is to have everything laid out for your family, so everyone knows what you wanted to have happen. That means having a will in place and making sure your close family members know what’s in it, so they all know what to expect when you pass on and there are no surprises. It can also mean having your own final services laid out and planned so you don’t have to worry about anyone fighting over making decisions.
While those are the logical steps to take to avoid your own family issues over inheritance once you pass on, what happens when a family member passes on and doesn’t have those things in place? In those cases, it can be a lot harder.
Instead of taking complete control over the final services, it’s best to include siblings, and others who are important to your loved one and might have a claim over what should be done. If you can’t reach a unanimous decision over what services to have, perhaps try to break things up and assign certain people certain parts. Everyone gets to decide on their particular part and that can help cut back on the fights over little details. Keep in mind that your loved one is at the center of the situation and they would not want a bunch of dissent surrounding their death.
Dealing with an estate without a will or where things are unclear in certain situations can be even harder on a family. If at all possible, simply divide things as equally as you can among the people who deserve a portion of the estate. You can let the courts decide, of course, but that can be hard on everyone. Do the best you can to reach arrangements that are amicable, for your loved one’s memory.
These are a few tips to help you deal with family situations surrounding the death of a loved one and their services at funeral homes in Charlotte, NC. If you’ve ever dealt with strife around final services, it may push you to want to organize your own, so those things won’t happen when you pass away. Contact Heritage Funeral and Cremation Services to help with services for a loved one, or for arranging your own in advance. You can call us at (704) 846-3771 to get details on package options and to ask questions. You can then come in and visit with us in person so we can get into personalization’s to make the services special at 3700 Forest Lawn Dr Matthews, NC 28104.